“Breakfast like a King, Lunch like a Queen and Dinner like a Pauper”. I am sure you have heard this phrase uttered somewhere before. It basically promotes the idea that your meals should be largest when you start off the day and tapers off as you end it. Despite this popular saying, most of us, especially the working population, do the exact opposite. We wake up to a rushed breakfast (or none at all), have a big lunch and an even heavier dinner. And not long after our late dinners, we feel our energy sapped from the digestive burden and retire to our nightly slumber.

If you are worried about your weight, you may have to relook at how you distribute your calories throughout the day. To test whether time of eating alone can affect body weight, researchers at Northwestern University studied two groups of mice who were fed identical diets. For the study, half of the mice were mostly fed during the time they would normally be sleeping – simulating late-night dinners in humans. The other half were given the same food on their regular eating schedule. At the end of six weeks, the mice in both groups had consumed the exact same amount of calories and performed the same amount of exercise. However, the mice that ate when they normally would have been sleeping posted two-and-a-half times more weight gain than those who ate on a regular schedule!
It’s quite clear that making dinner your most calorie-laden meal is not a good idea, especially when you are watching your waistline. Yet, many of us who have been toiling throughout the day are guilty of having the tastiest, fattest and ultra-high calorie food at the end of the day. It’s the reward for the hard day’s work. Nothing better than deep fried chicken and fries to soothe the soul and relief stress right? Well, your heart and waistline will disagree.
Granted, it is sometimes a tad difficult to choose only low calorie, low fat food for dinner. In the Asian culture, dinner is viewed as time for family or relationship bonding. It is a time when everyone catches up with one another on the happenings of the day. Unlike breakfast and lunch, we sometimes do not have full control of the exact types of food that we can consume (especially if you are still living with mommy!). This is especially so when we eat as a group or family unit.
There is one thing we can do though – portion control. Instead of focusing on the types of food you consume, focus on the size of your portions. Ensure that the dinner portion is NOT the biggest portion of the day. It would be a great idea to consume less of the oily stuff, but it is more important to ensure that you consume less of everything. One way to do this is to pile everything on your plate before you start eating. Do this instead of refilling your plate as you have your meal. This way, you can see outright how much you are going to consume for this meal. Your eyes would not deceive you – if your dinner is larger than your lunch, you will notice it.
How are you going to consume smaller portions if you are used to having massive dinners? The best way is to EAT SLOWLY. We are usually quite rushed during our earlier meals. We have work on our mind and meals are secondary to completing what we have on hand. Dinner on the other hand, is a time when we have left work – a time to wind down. Instead of gobbling down on half chewed food, take smaller bites, chew each bite slower and longer and enjoy your meal longer. I suggest that as a general rule, we should chew our food no less than 10 times each round. It takes 20 minutes for our brains to register that we are full, so do take your time when having your meal.

Try to view dinner as a gastronomic pleasure by taking your time. It’s hard to enjoy food if it goes by too quickly. If you want to eat something that is tasty, might as well eat it slowly and savour the taste. And if you eat them slowly, you can have less going into your stomach but yet still savour the taste of the food. Another trick you can employ is the “Fork Down Method”. You basically put down your cutleries after you put something in your mouth. If that is too cumbersome, just ensure that you do not start picking food with your fork and spoon before you finish swallowing the first time.
Dinners are an important end to our hectic, fast-paced and stressful day. We rush through our day doing one mindless task after another without taking the time to enjoy it. Don’t make that mistake by gobbling down your dinners. If you have the ability to choose healthful dinners, great. If you don’t, just ensure that slow it down, control your portions and enjoy the process. Let’s learn from the Slow Food international manifesto which was written by founding member, Folco Portinari and endorsed by delegates from 15 countries: “May suitable doses of guaranteed sensual pleasure and slow, long-lasting enjoyment preserve us from the contagion of the multitude who mistake frenzy for efficiency”. Try it and you may just find looser pants as a pleasant side effect.
